In preparation for Christmas, my husband Dave and I almost always trade wishlists. They’ve gotten shorter over the years, down to just one or two items. For 2021 Dave wanted a non-duck bird sculpture, something to add variety to his collection of wooden ducks. I asked for a pair of binoculars.
I wanted binoculars to enhance my walks. When my treadmill died in early 2020 (a sad, sad day) I started walking outside more. In 2021 I managed to get to every street in my town. I kept relatively fit, enjoyed the scenery, and came home with a new question every day. Why are the Blue Hills blue? What kind of person puts 47 gnomes in their front yard? What’s up with five white cars in that driveway? Why are these streets named after robber barons? Why do robins hop so much? What’s the name of that droopy white flower? Can turkeys fly? What’s the name for the roof that looks like a boat? What would it be like to spend a night in that huge treehouse? I often found myself wishing for better eyesight. Stupid rabbits, hopping away before I got close enough to watch.
On Christmas morning I unwrapped a pair of binoculars, as anticipated, and Dave opened the pair of folk-art birds I’d found at an antiques store, plus a field guide to the birds of eastern North America. Dave retrieved his own binoculars from the back of his closet and helped me with the calibration of my present. He ruffled the pages of the field guide.
“I’ll always remember this moment from second grade,” he said. A lady was giving a presentation about birds. She had been astonished and impressed when Dave correctly answered her question about what young birds are called. “Juvenile,” he’d said. That’s the term for “fledged birds not yet in adult plumage.” Little did the lady know that Dave’s father had a cherished and frequently consulted book of Audubon prints and regularly took his son bird-watching.
Dave opened the guide at random. “Titmouse,” he said. Flipped some pages: “Bobwhite.” Flipped more: “Grosbeak…I can’t believe I remember this so easily!”
Bird-mad young Dave was a new story to me. (We’ve been together nearly 30 years; we’ve heard many of each other’s stories, so new stories are an extra delight.) Due to many family trips to the Smithsonian museum of natural history as a kid, I’d also been interested in birds, along with insects and animals, but my parents weren’t bird watchers.
Later on in the week, David and I visited a nearby Audubon Society wildlife sanctuary. Woods, swamp, meadows. It was chilly and slightly rainy. I’d messed up my binocular’s straps and forgotten to bring gloves. As we made our way to the trailhead a bluejay crossed the path. The woods consisted mostly of pine and oak trees. There were baby pine trees just a couple of feet high all over the place, as well as fallen tree trunks covered with the greenest moss I’ve ever seen. Lots of bird calls. We tried out the binoculars and got crisp, clear views. We passed a couple of vernal pools. These are small ponds that form during the rainier season and dry into ditches when the rains slow. As they don’t contain fish, they provide a kind of bassinet for amphibians and insects that the fish would otherwise eat. Underneath our feet were tree roots, pine cones, pine needles, and dry winter grass.
Dave saw a couple of birds on top of a rock, but they flew away before he could identify them. I saw just that first bluejay, but that didn’t matter. My fingers froze a little; no matter either. Next time I’d bring gloves. Next time I’d see more birds.
We found a little breakfast place down the street—three rooms in a basement, blown up photos of ‘50s movie stars, fabulous food. Dave and I ate eggs and toast, warmed our chilly hands on coffee mugs, and talked about when we might do this again. It felt like an extra Christmas present. The best kind.